Cleary Gardens, London – Pre-Wedding Photography

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You know how you can reside in a location for years (such as London), and walk past the same place every day without actually realising it’s there? I’m ashamed to admit that I must have strolled past Cleary Gardens on countless occasions, and never gave it so much as a cursory glance.

Until recently that is. Every now and again I like to set up pre-wedding sessions via Facebook, where I pick a small number of lucky couples to take part in their very own photoshoot. It’s a great way to meet new people, and it allows me to try out a few new things such as funky flash tricks (I’m rather partial to the odd funky flash trick now and again, don’t you know.)

One of those lucky (and very lovely) couples was Adeena and Luke, who met me one evening in the never-visited-before Cleary Gardens. For those of you who’ve never visited said gardens, they’re rather small but very charming – lots of nooks and crannies, lovely foliage and benches where you can take time out for a while away from the hubbub of the city.

Adeena and Luke were utterly fab, open to my ideas and entering into the spirit of the session with enthusiasm and gusto. This is exactly the reason why I love photographing pre-wedding sessions and weddings themselves – I get to meet lots of lovely people and make some new friends along the way too.

10 Mistakes to Avoid When Choosing Your Wedding Photographer

Lympne Castle Wedding Photography

Weddings are emotional events and take a heck of a lot of planning, so knowledge is power – the more you’re aware of potential pitfalls when it comes to hiring a photographer, the more you’ll know what to look out for, ensuring you receive the very best photographs of your wedding day!

Mistake 1: Not getting to know your photographer first

When you hire a wedding photographer, it’s a little bit like hiring an extra guest to your wedding. Although the difference is this guest will be taking photographs, as well as talking to and getting along with all your friends and family, staying professional and capturing images with a smile on his or her face. That’s why it’s important to meet your photographer first, or at least have a lengthy conversation on the phone with them. You need to know if you’ll like them important events of the day, as well as not upsetting Auntie Mabel immediately before the ceremony.

Mistake 2: Choosing a photographer solely on price

Let’s face it; in life you tend to get what you pay for. Take luxury cars for example. Would you expect to take a few thousand pounds down to your local Aston Martin dealer and return home with a brand new DB7? Or would you expect to pop in to your local Apple store to purchase a laptop, and leave with plenty of change from £500?

Of course you wouldn’t!

The same applies to wedding photography. Of course, this doesn’t mean you have to hire the most expensive wedding photographer out there (if you do, he’s called Jerry Ghionis, he’s Australian, he’s unbelievable and his prices start at around £10,000. Just thought I’d get that out the way first.)

Cheap wedding photography normally means low quality (not always, but you tend to get what you pay for.) Creative people tend to charge what they think they’re worth. Someone who charges £250 to photograph a wedding is basically saying, “I’m not confident in my abilities or the quality of my work, so that’s why I’m charging very little for all day coverage and a disc of images.” When you hire a wedding photographer, you’re not only paying for their time. You’re paying for their expertise, gained from photographing multiple weddings. You’re paying for their creative eye. You’re paying for the beautiful images they create. You’re paying for memories that will last a lifetime.

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Mistake 3: Relying on a friend or family member who has a “nice camera”

Technology is amazing, isn’t it? Just think, ten years ago smartphones didn’t exist. Now everyone takes great photos on them and shares their efforts all across the Internet. Also, “entry-level” cameras are now way more advanced and cheaper than they’ve ever been, and to top it off “Auto” modes on these cameras are extremely intelligent and enable most people to take decent photographs. But are you happy to settle for “decent” on your wedding day?

You probably know someone who owns one of those swanky DSLR cameras. You know, the ones with the interchangeable lenses. Great pieces of kit, and as I said above, fabulous technology. But do they know how to really use it? Would they be able to take a sharp photograph in a dark church without a flash, without the resulting photo looking blurred? Can they capture a photo of your first dance by (a) using flash and (b) not making you look like you’ve wandered into a nuclear explosion? Ultimately, can you trust them to capture all these important moments…and more? Are you willing to take that risk..?

Mistake 4: Not being specific enough about the photos you want

I always ask clients when I meet them if there are any specific photos that they’d like. Some of them are so excited they simply say, “Oh, just take beautiful photographs through the day Dan, I trust you to capture everything!” Which is lovely, but not particularly helpful. Of course, I’ll photograph you getting ready. I’ll photograph the rings. I’ll photograph you looking amazing as you walk down the aisle. I’ll photograph the putting on of the rings. I’ll photograph the first kiss and the first dance, and more. However, believe it or not, I’m not a mind reader 🙂

If Auntie Mabel is flying across from Australia and it’s the first time in 23 years that you’ve seen her, and she’s not very well, and it’s vital that I take a photograph of her with you and your niece who’s just graduated…then please tell me!

Mistake 5: Prioritising products over the photography

Most wedding photographers offer various products as part of their collections, as I do. For example, I offer a folio containing a USB drive and prints, and a luxury handmade, leather bound album (which is utterly gorgeous. When you see it you’ll want one, believe me.) However, don’t lose sight of why you’re hiring a photographer in the first place! It’s the quality of their work. It’s the ability to capture images that you’ll treasure for the rest of your life. Not the products that they offer – you can source those long after your wedding is over, but you can’t replace mediocre photographs from that day.

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Mistake 6: Thinking that because a photographer has expensive gear, they’re bound to take fantastic photographs

It really is no guarantee. I could buy a top of the range Aga, and believe me, you probably wouldn’t want to eat what I could create with it.

This anecdote sums it up best: When the author Jack London had his portrait taken by the noted San Francisco photographer Arnold Genthe, London began the encounter with effusive praise for the photographic art of his friend and fellow bohemian, Genthe: “You must have a wonderful camera…it must be the best camera in the world …you must show me your camera!” Genthe then used his standard studio camera to make what has since become a classic picture of Jack London. When the sitting was finished, Genthe could not contain himself: “I have read your books, Jack, and I think they are important works of art. You must have a wonderful typewriter.”

Touché indeed.

Mistake 7: Not considering an assistant photographer

Planning is everything when it comes to wedding photography. I’ll always try and meet the client and nail down timings – what time they’re arriving, when guests are due to arrive, when the cutting of the cake and first dance are due to occur, and so on and so forth. This means I can plan where I’ll be, at what time, and what photographs I’ll be taking when I’m there. However, I don’t have eyes in the back of my head (more’s the pity), and they haven’t yet invented a camera with a lens on the front and the back (well, there’s always my smartphone, but I don’t think you’d want me to photograph your wedding using that..!)

I always try and recommend my couples pays a little extra for an assistant photographer. This means you’ll obviously have two pairs of skilled eyes watching proceedings unfold – while I’m photographing the first kiss, my assistant is capturing the beaming smiles and tears of joy amongst your wedding guests. While I’m capturing the bride and groom walking down the aisle towards me, my assistant is capturing the reactions of your guests, the confetti throwing and so on. While I’m capturing a close-up of the cake cutting, my assistant is taking a wide photograph of everyone in the room.

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Mistake 8: Leaving all the decisions to the photographer

As mentioned above in point 4, there are a number of “must-have” photos that I’ll always capture, although I recommend my clients to provide as much input as possible when it comes to their photographs. I’ll recommend poses and locations for your photos, but let me know what images you’d like. Set up a Pinterest board with wedding photos you love and share it with me (just bear in mind that if you pin photos from a beach wedding in Belize and you’re getting married in Bromley, you may be disappointed. Be realistic.)

Trust in my expertise, certainly, and the more ideas you can provide me with the better.

Mistake 9: Insisting on trendy photos

Around ten years ago “selective colouring” was all the rage – you know, a black and white photograph of a bride holding a bouquet, but the bouquet is in colour (it’s been selectively coloured in Photoshop). A couple of years ago it was vintage – desaturated / washed out photos of trendy couples holding Rolleiflex cameras. The problem with photographing in a style that’s currently trendy? It dates. Badly. In ten years time your photos will look “of a time” and definitely not timeless. After all, brown corduroy flares were hip at one point in history (so I keep telling myself as I once owned a pair. Anyway, moving on..!)

Mistake 10: Not realising just how important your wedding photos are (and will be in the future)

This is a summary of all the points above.     Make sure you hire someone you can trust to capture beautiful wedding photos. Put quality above price. How do their photos make you feel? How does the photographer make you feel when you meet them? Your wedding only lasts a day, and memories fade over time, but your photographs should remind you of your wedding day for the rest of your life.

Should I Have An Unplugged Wedding?

Unplugged wedding

Ooh, this is a bit of a hot potato at the moment, and there are numerous debates raging across the internet as I type this. Should you allow your guests to photograph your ceremony with their phones and iPads, or should they be focusing on being in the moment and sharing your special day?

Let’s face it, everyone has a smartphone or tablet these days, and the wonderful thing about these devices is that it allows people to indulge in and enjoy photography on a scale not witnessed before. There’s no need to plug your phone into your computer to download the photos; simply share them across your favourite social network with all your friends and family. I love my smartphone too, as it means that when I’m out and about I can leave all my cumbersome DSLR equipment at home and wander about snapping to my heart’s content.

As you can see from the links above, there’s a growing trend for couples requesting that their weddings are unplugged. So what exactly is an unplugged wedding? It’s where guests switch off and put away their phones / tablets, and enjoy the ceremony without viewing it via a small screen.

To be honest, I’m slightly torn on the subject. It’s not my job to tell couples that all their guests should put their devices away and be present in the moment, but there are a few things you should be aware of if your guests are allowed to take photographs:

Weddings are all about emotions

It’s difficult to truly appreciate the love and joy of a ceremony when you’re ensconced behind a screen and trying to take a photograph (leave that to me, I’ve got you covered). Heck, there are even times when I put the camera down to take in the moment (don’t worry, I make sure all the important photographs are captured first, but it’s definitely nice to share in the emotion of the day from time to time and to remember exactly why we’re all there).

Smartphone photos will be the first wedding photos you’ll see

As good as smartphones and tablet cameras are, they’re definitely not designed (or capable) of taking sharp, well exposed photos in a dark church. Do you really want the first photographs of your wedding to be dark, blurred and underexposed, especially when they’re being shared to thousands of people on social media?

Your professional wedding photos may be compromised

Picture the scene: you’ve been pronounced husband and wife, and you’re gleefully walking back down the aisle smiling at all your family and friends. I’m standing at the back of the church capturing these emotions as you walk towards me, and from out of nowhere Uncle Simon lurches out into the aisle with his phone and completely blocks my view. I like to think I’m a very good photographer and the equipment I use is state of the art, but even I or my gear is unable to see through people. What should be one of the most joyous photographs of the day has now been ruined, although I will have a super-sharp, beautifully exposed photo of the back of Uncle Simon’s head.

Conclusion

It’s a difficult one, I’ll have to admit. As you can see from the photographs in this post, some great moments can be captured of people photographing your wedding on their phones. It’s a free world and it’s certainly not up to me to tell you whether you should or shouldn’t contemplate having an unplugged wedding. Just be aware of the caveats above, and that your overriding memory of the day might be the back of Uncle Simon’s head!

Sneak Peek! Merrion & Sam – Sidcup Manor House, Bexley

Sneak Peek Merrion Sam Sidcup Manor House Bexley

It’s amazing how cake can bring people together, isn’t it?

Last year Merrion & Sam contacted me and asked if I’d like to chat to them about their forthcoming wedding at the Bexley Register Office at Sidcup Manor House, Kent. Of course I was thrilled to be asked to pop on over to talk weddings and photography, and when Merrion mentioned her love for cake I literally couldn’t wait to meet up (and to eat their cake as well – not all of it, I hasten to add…!) When they revealed that their reception was to be held in the fantastic East Dulwich Tavern (a venue I’m extremely familiar with), I almost passed out with excitement (luckily I’d eaten lots of cake by then for sustenance…)

So we chatted about their big day, and drank coffee and munched on cake. Sometimes I have to pinch myself and realise how lucky I am – not only do I get to meet some wonderful couples, I also get to expand my waistline by consuming lots of lovely cake. All in the name of business, you understand…ahem.

Now, where did I put my gym membership details..?

Regents Park, London – Pre-Wedding Photography

Regents Park, London – Pre-Wedding Photography

If there are any nicer ways of spending a couple of hours than photographing a gorgeous couple in a London Park on a balmy summer’s evening, I’d really like to hear it…

I met Francesca and Phill for their pre-wedding photography session just outside Regents Park station, and from there we wandered through one of London’s finest green spaces. We talked about their wedding and our shared experiences of planning a big day – Francesca and Phill are getting married in Lillibrooke Manor next year, where I had the great pleasure of photographing Lindsey and Dan’s wedding back in the day. We also chatted about their love and obsession of all things Disney – thankfully there was no mention of me being a Mickey Mouse photographer (boom tssh…I’m here all week folks…!)

The weather was glorious, and when the clouds moved over the sun I simply whipped my flash out (steady now) and created some of my very own sunshine (I’m full of tricks like that). You’re really spoiled for choice in Regents Park as far as beautiful photos are concerned, and towards the end of the session we were blessed with one of the finest sunsets I’d seen in a long time. Thank you Mother Nature.

Westminster, London – Pre-Wedding Photography

Westminster, London – Pre-Wedding Photography

You know when you meet someone and you just know you’re going to get along famously? Ladies and gentleman, let me introduce you to Shimmee and Jason…

A little backstory for you. I recently ran a promotion via Facebook asking for couples to take part in some pre-wedding photography sessions, to give me a chance to add some fantastic images to my portfolio (and as an excuse to experiment and play around with a few ideas). Shortly after selecting and emailing the successful couples, Shimmee called me up and exclaimed how excited she was that she’d been selected along with her hubby-to-be Jason.

To be honest, I’ve received a fair few emails from excited couples which is always a buzz (and exactly my intention – my pre-wedding sessions are supposed to be exciting and lots of fun), but I’ve never had anyone call me up before. It was a fabulous surprise, and set the tone for the pre-wedding session itself…

I met Shimmee and Jason outside of Westminster Station on a warm Saturday evening. Those of you who know Westminster Station (and London stations in general) know how busy they can be. Especially on a Saturday evening in the summer. Yes, there were people everywhere, but this didn’t deter us as we battled our way through the crowds onto Westminster Bridge and beyond…

Shimmee and Jason were amazing and an absolute joy to photograph. We had loads of laughs, they were open to all of my ideas (even the off-the-wall ones!), and together we captured loads of great photos together. Here are some of the best ones from our jaunt around Central London:

Brick Lane, London – Pre-Wedding Photography

Brick Lane, London – Pre-Wedding Photography

Many years ago when I was a sad computer geek (not a lot has changed, to be honest) I used to work for a large digital design agency in Brick Lane. So it was with great joy I returned to Shoreditch and the surrounding area to photograph the gorgeous pre-wedding session of Rajvi and Preetesh.

Shoreditch has changed a lot over the years. It used to be…how shall we say…one of the less salubrious areas of London to frequent. Nowadays it’s full of hipsters (I really felt out of place, I can tell you), bohemian coffee shops and lots and lots of funky graffiti.

Rajvi and Preetesh looked completely at home here – not only are they both lovely, they were also extremely friendly and suggested some poses and locations too which always makes my job a lot easier. It also (hopefully) contributes to some fabulous photography.

So a huge thanks to you both – apologies for dragging you half way round London, and Rajvi, I hope your feet have recovered from all the walking we did!

Here are some of the best photographs from the session:

 

Sneak Peek! Jayne & Martin – Danson Boathouse, Kent

Sneak Peek Jayne Martin Danson Boathouse

Over the past few years I’ve travelled all over the UK to photograph weddings (Manchester, Liverpool, Devon and beyond), so it’s always nice when I’m asked to photograph a wedding on my doorstep. Such was the case recently when I had the enormous pleasure of capturing Jayne and Martin’s wedding at the Danson Boathouse in Danson Park, Bexleyheath, Kent. You really couldn’t wish to meet a nicer, friendlier or more affable couple, and huge thanks to all Jayne and Martin’s friends and family who made me feel very welcome indeed!

Here are a few photographs from the day, with many more to follow soon!

St Pauls Cathedral, London – Pre-Wedding Photography

St Pauls Cathedral, London – Pre-Wedding Photography

Who’d have thunk it, eh? One minute you’re walking through the centre of London surrounded by multitude of city-dwellers and tourists, and the next minute you’re standing under a tree with the sun on your back, next to one of the most iconic cathedrals in London.

That’s the beauty of London, and one of the reasons why I love living just down the road from our capital city (I’d love to live in London again, but when I win the lottery I’ll let you know…) 99% of the time you’re surrounded by people, but turn a corner and before you know it you’re in a sleepy side street, or standing under a tree with the sun on your back etc.

This is where Vicki, Richard and I found ourselves recently whilst photographing their fantastic pre-wedding photography session in and around St Paul’s Cathedral. We took some photos on Millennium Bridge, and then by St Paul’s Cathedral itself and the surrounding streets, and that’s when we found our little oasis of calm. The sun was perfectly placed, and for a moment we were whisked away to England’s picturesque countryside…

By the way, I recently had the great pleasure in photographing Vicki and Richard’s wedding too in Amersham (another place I’d love to live in, but again, still waiting for those lucky numbers to come in…) Those photographs will be on the blog soon, but until then, bask yourself in the warm glow of Vicki & Richard’s love in the sunshine…

Getting Married?

Alicia Hotel Liverpool Wedding Photography

If you’re getting married soon and you’re still looking for a photographer, I have a very special offer for you! If you book one of my wedding photography collections, I’ll include £300 worth of free gifts just for you. These include:

  • A Signing Frame – all of your wedding guests can write their warmest congratulations on this luxury signing frame, which will include a photography from your complementary pre-wedding photo session.
  • 15 Matted Prints and Print Box – I’m a firm believer that photographs only really come alive when they’re printed, so I’m including this gorgeous print box containing 15 matted prints, along with a stand to present your favourite photograph in your home
  • 50 Save The Date and 50 Thank You Cards – let guests know in style when to put your wedding day in their diary, and then send them a gorgeous card to thank them for attending!

Hurry though, this offer will only run until midnight on June 16th 2016, so email me at hello@howhighthemoon.uk and tell me all about your wedding as soon as possible. I’ll then be in touch to arrange a chat to talk about photography and your free gifts!

Dan